Sigmund Brouwer Kids

We want our children to absorb the wisdom that comes from reading; they want television and electronic games. How can parents help children understand the importance of reading?

Perhaps the single best motivator is to show them the fun of reading.

After all, few can resist a good story. Told in the form of gossip, theatre, movie, music video or book, any interesting story will grip its audience. Hook a reader with a particular book, and the power of that good story becomes an immediate incentive and reward to continue. Initially — since one of the biggest reasons reluctant readers avoid books is because of poor reading skills — you may have to read aloud. Yet even then, your time will not be wasted, for you will have introduced your reluctant reader to the pleasure of written words.

Why is this important? Nobody teaches a child to run, to skate, to catch a ball, but the child himself. Children get better at anything simply by doing it, and reading is no different. As parents or coaches, the best we can do is guide and motivate so that the child will continue to practice in that discipline. 

Look for books and magazines on subjects that you know will interest your child. Especially look for ‘hi-lo’ books — high interest, low vocabulary. These are shorter, fast-paced books which won’t intimidate boys unskilled at reading. Use these simpler books as a stepping stone to make up for all the lack of practice during the crucial reading years in grades two and three.

With any book you are trying to get a reluctant reader to try, make sure it passes a simple three-step test:

One: If the back cover description is appealing, go to the step two. If the book doesn’t seem interesting, pass it by and look for another title.

Two: Read the first chapter aloud together. If it doesn’t grab the boy’s interest in the first ten pages, set the book aside. If, however, the book still looks interesting, go to step three.

Three: Read any page in the middle of the book. If the boy finds five words he doesn’t understand, pass on the book. Assure him this resulted from a lack of practice, not lack of intelligence. Practice at reading will make the book possible later, and like a good friend, it will wait for a return visit.

If a book passes all three tests, you can promise your reluctant reader it will be as much fun as watching a movie.

Remember, reading better is like playing any sport better. Unless there is an eyesight problem or physiological problem — most reluctant readers can be turned around through nothing more than practice. Get a reluctant boy reader through some simpler books, and you will be surprised how quickly he will become better as he gains confidence, and understands how enjoyable books can be.